Poodle Management / Therapy

 Hey BFFs — Happy Wednesday! Let’s talk about dogs… because somehow these once-wild wolves decided to trade survival for snuggles, and honestly? Best decision ever made. 

Fast forward to today and our pups come with a little more than loyalty—they come with routines, training, expenses, and yes… a whole lot of chaos. But they also bring that unmatched, unconditional love that hits different after a long day.

And here’s the wild part—it’s science. When your dog locks eyes with you, your brain literally releases happiness chemicals. No notes.

So today, I’m taking you inside life as a full-blown dog mom to three Standard Poodles under 2.5 years old—the highs, the chaos, and everything in between.

👇 Scroll down for the adventure! Cheers & martinis, Frances @GalOffDuty 🍸

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The Truth About Having Dogs: The Good (and the Not-So-Good)

There’s something about dogs that instantly makes a house feel like a home.

Right now we have four dogs — yes, four.Three Standard Poodles and one tiny Chihuahua who somehow thinks he runs the entire household.

And while I wouldn’t change it for anything, I’ll be honest with you: having dogs is one of the greatest joys… but also one of the biggest responsibilities.

The good part is obvious

Dogs bring so much happiness into your life. They greet you like you’re the most important person in the world every single time you walk through the door. They become part of your daily rhythm — the morning walks, the cuddles on the couch, the little personalities that make every day funnier and warmer.

Our poodles especially have huge personalities. Anyone who has had a poodle knows they’re incredibly smart… sometimes a little too smart.

They make us laugh constantly

But there’s also the part that people don’t always talk about.

Dogs are a real commitment — not just emotionally, but logistically and financially too.

We travel a lot, and one of the biggest things we’ve learned is that if you’re going to have dogs, you need to make sure they’re properly cared for when you’re away.

Thankfully, we have someone we trust who takes amazing care of them, but that level of care is not cheap — and honestly, it shouldn’t be. When someone is responsible for your pets, they deserve to be compensated properly.

Between food, grooming, vet visits, sitters, and everything else… dogs are a real investment.

And they also require time

They need attention, walks, training, and structure. Dogs thrive on routine, and it’s your job as their owner to provide that.

So if you’ve been thinking about getting a dog, here’s my honest advice.

A few things to think about before getting a dog

Think about your lifestyle Do you travel often? Work long hours? Dogs can absolutely fit into busy lives — but you need a plan for their care.

Budget for more than just food Vet visits, grooming (especially with breeds like poodles), sitters, and unexpected expenses can add up quickly.

Choose the right breed for you Some dogs need a lot of exercise and stimulation. Others are more low-key. Research matters.

Make sure you truly have the time Dogs don’t just need a house — they need attention and interaction.

Remember: it’s a long-term commitment A dog can be part of your life for 10–15 years or more.

And yet… even knowing all of that, I would still choose dogs every time.

Because at the end of the day, the joy they bring is impossible to replace.

The way they run to greet you.The quiet companionship.The little routines that become part of your life.

Dogs are a lot of work — but they’re also a lot of love.

And honestly… I can’t imagine our home without them.

Cheers & martinis, Frances @GalOffDuty

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